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Retirement facility – if your elderly parent went missing?

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  • #176587

    Scarlet
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    Would you be very happy if your elderly family member walked out?

    I live in a neighborhood that is fairly close to a very nice retirement facility. The cottages are different levels according to the needs to the retiree. Some of the cottages are for Alzheimer’s or other medical needs.

    Last week on my way out I noticed one of the employees walking rather quickly in our neighborhood – So I stopped and asked if she was missing someone. And sure enough an elderly woman was missing. So I flipped around to go thru some of the courts. One of the neighbors was out, she indeed did see her, the woman was asking for directions for somewhere to far to walk. The elderly woman wouldn’t stay with her, but she did call the police. (I wish she would have followed her). I asked her how long, and it was at least 15-20 minutes. Went back to the employee and let them know. The facility had not called the police yet.

    I looked a little longer in a couple of different neighborhoods and made the assumption or hoped that the police picked up.

    I wasn’t happy with the facility, they only had two people looking for her by foot. Why not call the police right away? The police could have sent out an automated phone call and text message to our neighborhoods. I was hoping the police actually picked her up before the facility, and that maybe they were able to get contact information from her for one of her relatives.

    A while back there was another woman at the gate waving her hand thru the side gate, so we stopped and she wanted to go home, she wanted me to call her family. I stayed with her, while my husband drove around to let someone know.

    I’m thinking they might need to have a higher sounding alarm on the doors, so they know when someone is leaving.

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    I think I would call and speak to the Manager or call a corporate office and let them know what you have seen from this location. The families of the residents don’t have any idea this is going on.

  • #287061

    EGL Admin
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    That’s not good. It’s kind of a big deal in that situation. You wanna bet they didn’t tell the family? They need to hav better security.

  • #287067

    lizzie
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    The police department has a free bracelet for people that have cognitive or autism. The bracelet helps LE locate them. The facility needs more security.

  • #287063

    violarose
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    I would be mad.

  • #287064

    party-of-six
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    Uh oh….this sounds like the place my mom is at and I worry about her deciding to just go for a walk someday and not being able to find her way.

  • #287068

    lizzie
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    Party of six where is your mother?

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    party-of-six
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    Lizzie, she is currently at Brookdale.

  • #287071

    Scarlet
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    If she stays in the neighborhood directly behind her – it’s a large circle a mile long but it does have courts and cut-outs and you can access the park and green belt. you might want to take her for a walk to show her, people do get confused thinking there is a quick access to get out and there is not – and maybe she needs my address for a resting point?

  • #287069

    lizzie
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    We looked at Brookdale. We decided against because the residents do not wear security buttons. EGPD has bracelets that will help locate dementia afflicted that wanders off.

  • #287066

    party-of-six
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    Lizzie, where did you decide? I can’t remember. You can PM me if you’d prefer.

  • #287070

    lizzie
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    We selected the Commons. My MIL still does not like it but I think she does not like anything. Although they have Aumba gold, and bumper pool that she really likes.

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